What's Happening is on hiatus: Here’s why !

In my previous post, I challenged you to do things you could never imagine doing. Well! here I go, doing scary sh*t. But this is not the end we are just getting started.

This year has been a great learning experience for me. I went through a process of trial and error. Trying to figure out what works and what doesn’t . After careful observation I think it is time to re-brand and re-purpose our content.

I noticed a lack of engagement on our website and on our IG. It hasn’t been easy trying to get you guys to engage with us. Instagram only showed our content to about 10 % of our followers. This is no good. But I’ve been paying attention……. I know what some of you care about.

So I am using this time off to give Pour Toi a make over. The Goal is to still inspire women to glow up but I want to provide a space that is personal and easy to navigate. There will be some major changes, I won’t discuss now. I’ll rather spring a surprise.


While we are away I want you all to focus on your goals for 2020. Think positive and focus on the positive. Instagram, Facebook and Twitter all have a delete button. Don’t be afraid to delete or block negativity from your page.

@pourtoi_____ ( Our old Logo)

One last thing, don’t leave us hanging. Stay tuned! subscribe right now to our email list. I’m always looking to glow with ambitious women so If you have an idea you want to pitch or would like to collaborate just slide in our email at

Make this year a good one. Happy New Year!

Do you PourToi ,


Daily Inspiration

2020: It’s Time To Do Scare Sh*T. Are You Ready ?

Let 2020 be the year you start doing more things that scare you. It’s time to live fearless.

I don’t know about you ladies, but I refuse to live in fear. I refuse to let fear stop me from succeeding. Here’s what I realize, when it feels scary to do something that’s when I should do it. If not I will continue to be stuck in the same place, thinking ” what if”. So this year I did some scary shit and I felt good after every scary moment. I felt good because I was finally doing some of the things I listed on my to-do list.

You may not be certain about 2020 and that’s fine. Just go for what you want. Do things on your to-do list. Dare yourself. Find different ways to get out of your comfort zone.

Remember this, the things that scare you are the same things that will turn you into the person you are meant to be.

So are you ready to do scare sh*t? Screenshot the list below or write each challenge down on a piece of paper.

Day 1 Today I dare to __________.

Day 2 Today I achieved mastery when________.

Day 3 Today I made a hard decision _____________.

Day 4 Today I ate ____________.

Day 5 Today I took a chance on __________.

Day 6 Today I mastered ___________.

Day 7 Today I said no to ___________.

Day 8 Today I stopped avoiding _______________.

Day 9 Today I accepted a compliment when _________.

Day 10 Today I asked for help from ______________.

Day 11 Today I stopped doing ______________.

Day 12 Today I let go of ________________.

Day 13 Today I got rid of ________________.

Day 14 Today I acknowledged that ______________.

Day 15 Today I was fearless when ___________.

Day 16 Today I surrendered to ________________.

Day 17 Today I took a chance on _________________.

Day 18 Today I reached out to____________________.

Day 19 Today I confronted ______________.

Day 20 Today I took a risk in_____________________.

Day 21 Today I said bye to __________________.

Day 22 Today I challenged myself to _______

Day 23 Today I did the hardest thing for me when I _________________.

Day 24 Today I did something worth doing like __________

Day 25 Today I traveled to _______.

Day 26 Today I was bold when ________.

Day 27 Today I resisted fear by ___________.

Day 28 Today I wore a color I’ve never worn before ________.

Day 29 Today I had the courage to ______

Day 30 I said yes to__________.

For the next 30 days take the challenge. I promise that you will feel Bold, Brave and Confident !

Do it Pour Toi